[zic_t]

(%:/etc/mail)- grep Addr freebsd.mc | grep -v ^dnl
DAEMON_OPTIONS(`Name=IPv4, Family=inet, Addr=192.168.0.5, Port=smtp, Name=MTA')
DAEMON_OPTIONS(`Name=IPv4, Family=inet, Addr=127.0.0.1, Port=smtp, Name=MTA')

(%:/etc/mail)- make
cp freebsd.mc ns.server.ua.mc
/usr/bin/m4 -D_CF_DIR_=/usr/share/sendmail/cf/ /usr/share/sendmail/cf/m4/cf.m4 ns.server.ua.mc > ns.server.ua.cf
cp freebsd.submit.mc ns.server.ua.submit.mc
/usr/bin/m4 -D_CF_DIR_=/usr/share/sendmail/cf/ /usr/share/sendmail/cf/m4/cf.m4 ns.server.ua.submit.mc > ns.server.ua.submit.cf

(%:/etc/mail)- cp ns.server.ua.cf sendmail.cf
(%:/etc/mail)- cp ns.server.ua.submit.cf submit.cf

(%:/etc/mail)- make install
install -m 444 ns.server.ua.cf /etc/mail/sendmail.cf
install -m 444 ns.server.ua.submit.cf /etc/mail/submit.cf

(%:/etc/mail)- make restart
Restarting: sendmail sendmail-clientmqueue.


(%:/etc/mail)- sockstat -4 | grep 25
root sendmail 412 4 tcp4 127.0.0.1:25 *:*
root syslogd 246 5 udp4 *:514 *:*

спасибо вам archy
завтра переустановлю FreeBSD 5.2 на 5.3
и попробую там настроить